3 tell-tale signs in dog’s body language shows you’re the favourite

Pet owners often wonder who holds the coveted title of their animal’s favourite human, with the widely held belief being that dogs gravitate towards whoever feeds, walks and plays with them most.

However, experts at Rover suggest it runs far deeper than that, proposing that dogs tend to bond most strongly with the person “who matches their own energy level and personality”.

Veterinarian Dr James Greenwood, who regularly appears on The Pet Show in the UK, is sharing his expertise on how to determine whether you are your dog’s top human, or merely the backup. He also offers valuable guidance on strengthening your bond with your four-legged companion.

Dr Greenwood reveals your dog’s tail behaviour is a telling indicator of their feelings, and that paying close attention to their body language is essential.

He explains: “It’s all about the tail with dogs! They can express a whole range of emotions through their tail wag. Whilst it’s important to note not all tail wagging is a sign of happiness, there are two types that signal pure joy in our dogs.”

Dr Greenwood recommends observing your dog’s body language upon returning home, noting which person they approach first and what their wagging style looks like.

He explains: “Firstly, the whole-body wag that starts at the shoulders and wiggles all the way down to the tip of the tail is quite literally their happy dance.

“Secondly, the helicopter tail wag is usually reserved for those who are viewed as especially important. Finally, that super excited greeting when you get back from leaving the house – the jumping and licking, sometimes they may bark or bring you a toy – is a genuine signal that they are pleased to see you.”

However, this isn’t the sole indicator, as dogs may choose their ‘favourite’ owner as their cuddle companion when relaxing on the sofa during the evening. Dr Greenwood explains if your pet approaches you of their own accord, it’s an unmistakable sign they adore you and believe you’ll protect them while they rest.

Regarding strengthening your connection with your pet, Dr Greenwood simply advises dedicating time to them. He continues: “A daily walk is essential; dogs love using their senses to smell and explore and need to burn off calories exercising. I would also suggest setting up an obstacle course or using puzzle feeders to get them thinking and problem-solving.

“Food is also a big motivator for dogs and you can use this to your advantage when training by using treats as a reward for good behaviour.”

Pet owners flocked to social media to reveal their own methods to “tell a dog has chosen you as their person”. One Reddit user commented: “My oldest dog was actually adopted for my son, but she has definitely chosen me as her person. She comes to me for comfort when she’s scared, she sleeps in my bed, and gets extremely jealous when our cats and younger pup try to be near me.

“Our younger dog sings the craziest song whenever she sees my daughter’s cat pull into our driveway. She acts like my daughter has been gone for a year, and rears up on her little hind legs, puts her paws together, and prances when she sees her come in the door. It’s heartwarming.”

A further user recounted their own tale, commenting: “Mine definitely has a favourite. I feed, walk, and spend most of the time with our boy but if I come home with my wife, no matter how far behind she is when I open the door, he’ll beeline for her without ever recognising I exist for a couple of minutes.”